Why you must stop using Elderspeak

Are you aware of the term elderspeak? If not, let us provide you with some examples:

“It’s time to take your medicine, sweetie.”

“Are you ready for lunch, honey?”

“Would you like crackers with your soup, hon?”

What is elderspeak?

Elderspeak occurs when one changes how they speak to an older individual. This might include speaking slowly, loudly, using a sing-song voice, using pet names, speaking to them like a child, and so on. Elderspeak occurs more than you might think, but that does not make it okay. It is important that we all bring awareness to elderspeak in order to stop it from occurring.

Why is elderspeak harmful?

Elderspeak is harmful to older adults and can cause them to be agitated and angry, because they can recognize the difference in your voice and attitude when you speak with them. Elderspeak can be a learned habit, especially if your parents talked to your grandparents that way when you were younger. Still, you must challenge yourself to break the stereotype before you insult the people you love so dearly.

How often does elderspeak happen?

If you didn’t know about elderspeak before today, you’ll be surprised to know that it happens more than you think. The people around you may not realize what they are doing, as it could be a learned behavior, but education on the matter can stop this learned behavior from going on further. It is important for you to realize that the vocabulary of older adults does not diminish as they grow older, so you do not need to simplify what you say to them.

What are the effects of elderspeak?

Elderspeak can have a negative effect on your loved one’s health and quality of life. Elderspeak can cause depression and resistance to ongoing care. Once you realize that older adults are not incompetent, but still able to process the same words, you can stop talking to them like they are a child. No one likes to be talked to like a baby; it is demeaning. That’s why it’s crucial that as a society, we start recognizing the competency of older adults. Always be sure to treat older adults how you would want to be treated if you were in their shoes. Be respectful and speak to them as the wise individuals they are.

We hope we provided enough information on elderspeak. Always remember that if you don’t feel qualified or able to take care of your loved one, we can help. To learn more about our assisted living, long-term living, or rehabilitation services, be sure to give us a call at (937) 319-8924.